18 Jul
Friday the 13th of July…I thought I wouldn’t have to go through this range of emotions for a couple more years.
Similar to Will’s post about Harmoni, our Little Tragedy #3, Tiki succumbed to a similar fate. We were watching Tiki for a friend of mine as she prepared to move to Texas. We had him for a couple of weeks and really grew to like him despite his wanting to go outside, several escape attempts and howling in the middle of the night.
He was a thin little guy, but he held his own against our six other kitties. He immediately gained the respect of the others and even tried to put the moves on Patches. It wasn’t too long before he claimed a spot on the bed. I knew things were not good when he started to sleep a lot and had no desire to play outside - it was an all too familiar feeling. I told his owner the night before about his condition and she decided to take him to the emergency vet. Only 3 out of the 7 times that I have visited an emergency vet have I walked back out with my pet. Although Tiki wasn’t mine, he became part of the family and we all grew to love him in that short amount of time. I really wish I had a definitive answer on what the problem was, but that was not my decision to make despite my pleas.
I cannot tell you how much I hate the fact that we have the ability to take a life. I don’t agree with the practice and would rather have the animal pass on its own. When Pooch died last year, she waited until she took her last walk, went to her bed and went to sleep forever. We knew it was a matter of time and she went on her own terms.
For all of you with pets, take care of them up until their last breath. Don’t put your pet down without knowing what exactly was ailing it. It is the least we can do before taking their life.
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4 Responses for "Little Tragedy #4"
I found myself becoming much more attached to this cat than I thought I would. I can’t count how many times I asked Nadia “when is he leaving?”
After a while, I just got used to his (loud) howling in the middle of the night asking to go outside, how he crawled up next to Patches whenever she wasn’t looking, and how he’d park himself right next to Nad as she slept. Even his ninja-like ability to escape even when he was being directly observed. I counted 15 successful escape attempts in the month of June!
He really did become one of the family in his short time with us. You’ll be missed Dr. Tikitron of Wysteria Lane (a needlessly long nickname I made up for him).
I would never judge someone else’s feelings, but I do believe it can be OK to put a pet to sleep.
The two cats I grew up with were put to sleep in old age — one had hyperthyroidism and was painfully wasting away; the other got dementia and was constantly howling in fear about nothing.
While it was emotionally hard, I think it was the right thing, to let them rest in peace instead of live in pain.
Either way, it’s one hell of a tough choice, and you have my sympathy.
I do believe that it is okay to put the animal down, but only once I know what was ailing it. I never want an animal to suffer just so I can spend a couple more hours with it. Unlike this situation, you knew exactly what was wrong with your kitties before putting them down. With Cleo, Whiskers and Harmoni, we knew what was wrong with them before putting them down. It eats at me that I didn’t know what was wrong with Tiki and that is what i disagree with most - not knowing…
Thanks for your sympathy.
Over the years we all grow emotionally attached and there’s nothing wrong with that. Pets do becomes a family member and its basically the same level of diffuculty when it comes to a member of your family being striped of their life. Its a tough choice. Its not easy.
Jo and I just got Rocky in January and this guy is us. We don’t do anything witout taking him into consideration. Whats going to crack my heart is if something similar to the choice you made for Cleo, Whisker, and Harmoni was place into my dofgs life. It’ll actually kill me. But I understand your point of veiw and I think I share that same thought when it come to life.
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